February 20, 2020

I hope you have had a good beginning to 2020.  For the first time in a long time, we were all together as a family over the holidays.  It was wonderful!  We had lots of happy times together, including a few days by the beach down the coast and lots of braais with friends. Now it is all but a memory, but at least the memories are good!  I am grateful that our kids are following God, and know what they want to do!  Ana is in Brisbane, Australia doing a leadership/business/barista course with YWAM.  Isaac is in the middle of his sophomore year at Messiah College.  Margaret is in the middle of 10th grade here in Cape Town, and Phoebe started a new school year at a new school.

With the influx of tourists over the holiday, I became keenly aware of the beauty and challenges of this country.  Mountains crash down to the ocean on every side.  Hearing three or four different languages daily is normal.  I have seen the biggest houses in my life here, yet I have also seen the most depravity imaginable to humankind.  Segregation and racial tensions are rife.  This rainbow nation has its work cut out for it.  It’s hard to watch sometimes, always interesting, always challenging.

Our current challenge is electricity, in terms of supply and price.  Because of poor management and corruption, the country cannot provide enough electricity to everyone.  We have allotted black-out periods which usually run for two and a half hours each day.  Believe me, you get into a rhythm with this. It’s not all bad, although it is frustrating when you forget and go to the store and find it closed.

Prison ministry is up and running once again.  Alberto just attended the Hope Prison Ministry conference where they discussed the unrecognized ministry of working with prison authorities.  While some officials are corrupt and directly benefit from the illicit market of goods entering the prison, others are dedicated to doing the right thing.  It is up to the officials to decide whether it is a good day to allow volunteers in or not.  It may not be safe on a particular day, or they simply may not want to be bothered.  Another subject that was discussed is prison trauma and the importance of volunteers debriefing what they see and hear in prison.  I am grateful Alberto is part of a team so they can debrief together.

Please keep the prison ministry in your prayers, as well as our family and our safety.  Of course we are all praying for the Coronavirus outbreak, for those suffering, and for wisdom for those making decisions.

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Fire season is here.  The land is dry, and fires break out with far too much frequency.  The above fire was maliciously lit in our neighborhood.  The thick smoke and ash caused us to leave.  It took a few days of hard work by the fire department as the fires kept being reignited, but eventually they were put out.

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Ana was so excited to start her barista course in Australia, although good-byes are always hard.  You can read her positive update here.

Margaret was recently diagnosed with ADD, as I mentioned in the last update.  She is now on medication and doing much better.  She is able to focus in class and on her homework, and her general mood has improved considerably.  We are still working out the details on the medication, but grateful for this discovery and Margaret’s persistence in getting me to get her tested.

Phoebe started the new school year at a new private special needs school.  She is pictured above looking a bit anxious on the first day (no uniform at this school).  So far we are happy with the school.  The student teacher ratio is 3:1.  The school day includes most of Phoebe’s therapies, which means I do not have to spend my afternoons driving around to the various sessions.  The beautiful thing is that last July a generous donor donated a large sum of money to our account.  Little did we know at the time that we would need that money to cover the higher tuition of the school.  Yet God knew all along, and even provided the money before we knew we would need it!

Our last update mentioned Elna and her struggles with her son being in and out of prison.  Meanwhile she is taking care of lots of foster kids and struggling financially.  Her church wanted to affirm her ministry to the children and honour her for her faithfulness, even though they couldn’t provide any financial assistance in caring for the foster kids.  Through the generosity of one of our supporters, we were able to bring Elna bags of groceries at the end of the year.  This made her weep, as she said she was waiting for God’s provision when the groceries appeared.

According to the 2019 statistic by UNICEF, 27.4% (1.7 million) South African children under the age of five suffer from stunted growth due to malnutrition and hunger. This is absolutely appalling for a country with so many resources!  One load of groceries will not prevent malnutrition, but bit by bit we can all work together.  Margaret’s school is currently getting involved in this very issue.

Phoebe was recently tested for an adrenal auto-immune disease (Addison’s Disease) at the Groote Schuur Hospital.  Night time dips in her blood sugar levels turned out to be due to low cortisol levels.  The doctor recommended a stimulation test of her adrenal glands, to rule out an auto-immune disease.  Since she already has two auto-immune conditions, we have to be very proactive when we see red flags.  Phoebe spent a challenging day in the hospital with a port in her hand, and her other hand tied up, to prevent her from pulling the thing out.  Praise God, the end result was that she was NEGATIVE for the disease.

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Soccer ministry is up and running.  Peniel is one of the soccer players.  Originally from the DRC (Democratic Republic of Congo), he fled his country during civil war and came to Cape Town, a haven for immigrants and refugees.  He became a Christian through the soccer ministry, and is a hard-working college student.  He worked around the clock at McDonalds to pay for his fees for his first year.  Now he wants to continue with his second year, but does not have enough funds.  Instead of letting him drop out, we decided to help him.  Pictured above is Alberto dropping him at his college dorm.  Because we are blessed and have seen God’s faithfulness in our lives with our children’s education, we can bless others.  Thank you to all of you who support us, who inadvertently support Peniel!

 

 

December 20, 2019

Merry Christmas!  Happy summer vacation!  Summer is here in the southern hemisphere, and while many people are flocking to the beach, we are trying to recreate some familiar Christmas traditions.  We have found a real Christmas tree and we are busy making Christmas cookies.  We are also counting down the days to Isaac’s arrival on Dec 23.  Having all our children with us will be a huge blessing!

With the approach of the end of the year, we have time to reflect and verbalize our gratitude to God.  We own the most amazing house with a beautiful garden that God uses to restore my soul!  Owning a house has enabled our roots to grow quickly, and gives us a sense of belonging and stability.

Ministry has been good this year, with the soccer team growing by leaps and bounds.  The team is pictured above with Alberto at the end-of-year braai.  Prison ministry has also been fruitful, with Restorative Justice conferences and counselling opportunities that have shown many that they are loved by a faithful father.

Alberto started a visitation ministry this year, whereby he visits family member of prisoners, and sees firsthand the effects of crime on the extended family.  Many times there is misunderstanding and anger, not to mention the loss of an income.  His goal is to listen to their struggles and offer a word of hope in Jesus.

On the family-front, we have had some challenges.  Violence has been on the increase in the city, and daily power outages have been difficult to work-around.  Power outages have been a particular challenge to Margaret, who depends on the internet for homework.  (No power=no internet and often no cell service.)  This, combined with challenging academics and the fact that she doesn’t have good friends at school, has made for a tough semester.  It was suggested to us that we test Margaret for ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) as a possible explanation for her seeming inability to concentrate.  Sure enough, we received the official diagnosis yesterday.  Looking back at her academic history, it all makes sense now!  Grateful for more insight, we’ll see how things change in the new year.  Please keep us in your prayers.

Phoebe, on the other hand, has just been accepted at a new school, which sounds absolutely amazing!  They have an autism behaviouralist on staff, and an occupational therapist, physical therapist and speech therapist.  Her new teacher just came to our house for coffee, and seems lovely.  The school will focus on life skills like gardening, meal prep, and art.  Her last school was alright, and at the time, her only option.  But after some helpful input from an observer, it was suggested that we look elsewhere.  I had heard of a new private special needs school opening in January 2020 through the broker for our house!  (We’ve stayed in touch because we both have special needs children.)  We applied for Phoebe and have just received her acceptance!  Although this new school is considerably more expensive, it seems like a very worth-while expense.  I am very excited about this opportunity.

My mom recently shared this passage from Isaiah 35 with me, as it reminded her that one day Phoebe will shout for joy!  What a day that will be!  (Phoebe does have some words, but not a full vocabulary, and it is often hard to know her intent.)  Anyway, the passage shows the Glory of the Lord and the Splendor of God.  It is a reminder to us, the redeemed, of things to come, and the motivation for us to carry on.  I cut the passage after the water reference, since drought is particularly fresh in our minds!

Joy of the Redeemed

The desert and the parched land will be glad;
the wilderness will rejoice and blossom.
Like the crocus, it will burst into bloom;
it will rejoice greatly and shout for joy.
The glory of Lebanon will be given to it,
the splendor of Carmel and Sharon;
they will see the glory of the Lord,
the splendor of our God.
Strengthen the feeble hands,
steady the knees that give way;
say to those with fearful hearts,
“Be strong, do not fear;
your God will come,
he will come with vengeance;
with divine retribution
he will come to save you.”
Then will the eyes of the blind be opened
and the ears of the deaf unstopped.
Then will the lame leap like a deer,
and the mute tongue shout for joy.
Water will gush forth in the wilderness
and streams in the desert…

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Alberto sharing at the end-of-year Hope Prison Ministry gathering.  Next to him is  Willem, his ministry partner of a few years.  Anne May is also in the line-up!

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In a recent home visit, Alberto met Elna, whose son was recently released from prison, and causing her much stress.  Although they couldn’t track down the son, Alberto was able to encourage the mom, who has three younger children at home plus seven foster kids.  She lives in a particularly challenging community with few opportunities, where many children get caught up in drug use at a very young age.  Alberto was able to listen to her challenges and pray with her.  He gave her some food for the children and a blood-pressure machine to help monitor her high blood pressure.  It seems like a drop in the bucket of need, but God is faithful and Alberto will maintain contact with her.

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Phoebe has completed another year of therapeutic horse-back riding, thanks to donations through SARDA (South African Riding for the Disabled Association).  Although its not quite clear whether Phoebe enjoys being on the horse or not, she certainly has good posture to show for it.

Phoebe has been enjoying swimming lessons again.  She is slowly but surely learning to swim, which is an important skill to have for someone with zero fear of water.

The talented ladies from the WBS (Women’s Benevolent Society) made this quilt for Phoebe!  What an act of love from those faithful ladies who always keep in touch with us and pray for us.  Thank you ladies!

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We are loving having Ana home!  She is cheerful and encouraging!  She has reconnected with old friends, including one of her best friends from Hawaii who lives here in Cape Town!  She has also been accepted to YWAM Brisbane leadership school and coffee internship program.  This 18-month course will teach her how to run a coffee shop as a business and ministry.  She is currently awaiting her Australian visa.  Click on this link to read her letter.

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I continue to enjoy my weekly hikes around Cape Town with other moms from Margaret’s school.  It’s a time to decompress and enjoy the beauty that surrounds us.  I have made some friends, and learned some of the challenges of the rotating culture at the school.

Current Address
P.O. Box 663
Noordhoek 7979
South Africa
Thank you to those of you who send us mail!  Some of you have our old address on file.  Please note our new address!

Merry Christmas!  God bless you and your families during this season!

 

October 28, 2019

Our refreshing time in Boston seems like a distant memory at this point.  Thanks to Jess Herndon for the lovely family picture taken on Boston Common.

Thank you for supporting our ministry here in South Africa, faithfully praying for us, and being our friends year after year.  As of September, we’ve been in South Africa for five years!

Since we were originally sent out by Park Street Church as mid-term missionaries, which carries a five-year maximum term of service, our status has recently been updated.  We are happy to announce that we are now Partner Missionaries!  We are thrilled to have an ongoing partner relationship with Park Street Church, and appreciate the long-term relationship with the church and their validation for our vision for ministry in South Africa.  To have the support of our home church is very important to us, as it carries an emotional relationship as well as a spiritual connection and practical backing.

In terms of practical backing, Park Street Church has increased their financial support of our family to 12% of our budget (from 6% under our old category).  The bulk of our budget will continue to be made up by generous supporters such as yourselves.  Most of you give through the church, with a message that the funds are to be allocated to our family.  Please continue to support us this way.

Ministry has taken different shapes and forms over the years, but the goal has always been to preach the gospel of salvation and make disciples.  Looking back, we have seen much fruit, and give all glory to God.  It is an honor to be working in His vineyard.  Despite having a troubled history and a present plagued with extreme racial inequalities, South Africa is a land of hope.  Thank you to all of you for standing with us, and thank you to Park Street Church for our new Partner Missionary status!

Saturday soccer ministry continues to show the players that walking with God is a viable long-term option, and that God is faithful.  Restorative Justice conferences through Hope Prison Ministry continue to reconcile inmates with their families and God.  Sometimes this has lasting positive effects, such as the woman who left prison a changed person, put herself through nursing school in order to help others, and is currently planning her wedding to a wonderful Christian man.  Sadly, sometimes the effects are short-lived.  On Alberto’s visit to a recently-released man, he learned that this man had just committed a new crime and was on his way back to prison again.  We must be faithful in sowing the Word of God, as some people’s hearts require great persistence.

Happy 16th birthday, Margaret!  She is pictured above, on her September 17th birthday.  Life has not always been easy with moving and adjusting, coming and going of friends, and stress of high school.  Through it all, Margaret has maintained a song in her heart and a smile on her face, as my mom says.  (Actually, a song on her lips, as she loves to sing!)

Margaret’s best present was Ana’s arrival from the U.S.  No time for jet-lag, we immediately whisked Ana off for Margaret’s birthday celebrations, including a sunset photo shoot over the Atlantic Ocean.  What a blessing to have Ana back with us, at least temporarily.  The Lord has been good to us!

Ana is with us for a few months, now that she is done with the School of Biblical Studies.  She needs some family time before she embarks on her next venture, which you will hear about shortly.

Phoebe recently started wearing a glucose monitoring sensor, which allows me to check her glucose levels with a scanner.  I no longer have to prick her finger five times a day.  This is a huge step in the care of her diabetes!

Last update I asked for prayer to get an appointment with a Behavioural therapist.  We are still on the wait-list for the recommended therapist, but in the meantime I found another one who seems equally as good.  She observed Phoebe in school this week, so I am eagerly awaiting her feedback and recommendations.

We recently had the opportunity to raft down the Breede River, along with other families in our special needs support group.  I am always inspired by the perseverance of the children in this group, and the commitment of their families. Walking the special needs road is certainly something we never envisioned for ourselves, but has caused us to slow down and watch our roots in God grow deep.

Isaac is in his sophomore year at Messiah College pursuing a Computer Science major and Finance minor (at present).  He is enjoying his classes, track, investment club, and working.  Happy summer memories of being with him have now faded, although he will be home with us for Christmas in Cape Town!  He’s been gone for over a year, so I can’t wait to have him back!

Alberto recently spoke about his prison ministry at our annual YWAM conference here in Cape Town.  It was an honor to be chosen to be a speaker, and many people have since expressed interest in getting involved in the ministry.

I joined a weekly hiking club with other mothers at Margaret’s school, which means I am now climbing some of Cape Town’s visual masterpieces, while getting to know some lovely ladies.  Ana joined us on our last hike up Devil’s Peak, part of the Table Mountain National Park, with views overlooking Cape Town.

Sue Givens is a missionary in Paraguay who was instrumental in our years of service there.  She recently visited us for a few days, which was so much fun, and allowed us to talk about our happy years in Paraguay!  Here we are at the Cape of Good Hope on an unusually calm day on the point.  It’s usually very windy there, which partly explains the many ship wrecks.

Glow-in dark algae (bioluminescent plankton) at a local beach.  I’m not sure why it glowed in the dark on that specific night, but we got the alert and headed to the beach!  What a phenomenon, and evidence of God’s handiwork!

Phoebe is relaxing on our porch after a busy day.

June 12, 2019

We are packing our bags and looking forward to our time back in the U.S.  We arrive June 21 (after a few day lay-over in the U.K.) and leave again July 31.  We will be staying with Joanna’s parents in South Weymouth.  We would love to see you to thank you personally for your support!  Please contact us:

Home phone (781)337-1141
Email joanna@paradas.org, or simply respond to this email

At the moment, this is our Sunday schedule:

June 23: Holy Nativity Church
June 30: Park Street Church ministry update
July 7: PSC
July 10: PSC Missions committee presentation
July 14: PSC
July 21: PSC: reception
July 28: Iglesia Bautista de Washington

Praises

We are grateful for:
*Our house (pictured above, with flowering aloes).
*Your faithful prayers and supporting our mission here.
*Phoebe’s recent liver counts that came back normal, and that she has grown.
*Margaret’s completion of 9th grade, and that her financial aid grant was renewed.  Also that she won the “Most Improved” in Algebra.
*Getting to see Isaac soon! In addition, that his Mary McKenzie scholarship through Park Street Church was renewed, as was his scholarship through Messiah College.
*Ana, who finishes School of Biblical Studies this month, at which time she will bid adieu to Hawaii and start a three-month outreach.

Prayer Requests

* Safe travels during our flights and lay-over in the U.K.
* Good visits with friends and family
* Church presentations: that we could effectively share what we are doing, reconnect with our supporters, and add in some new supporters
* Phoebe’s appointments at Children’s Hospital
* Margaret’s reconnection with old friends and job at Sprinkles in Boston
* Isaac’s summer class and work at Sprinkles
* Ana’s outreach to the North-West states with YWAM
* Refinancing our Quincy house (to pay-off the South African house with its high interest rate)
* Finances to cover all the added expenses

March 19, 2019

Prison ministry continues to thrive.  There is such a hunger in the prisons for hope.  Alberto’s team recently completed a week-long “Restorative Justice” conference.  The participants are prisoners who are usually quick to want to change, but struggle with its implementation.  The pressure to conform to their former lifestyles of crime is almost impossible to resist.  But Christ makes a way, and shows the path.

An integral part of the transformation process is support from family members, who are usually the ones who suffer the most.  They often have no idea why their family member is in prison.  They suffer ridicule and rejection in their communities, as their family member was a menace to the peace.  He was an agent of violence which often created a cloud of fear in the community.  And financial stress also follows when the incarcerated is no longer able to be the bread-winner for the family.

Alberto now spends one day a week visiting the family members and listening to their stories.  It is an excellent way to show the love and mercy of our Father, and an integral step in reconciling prisoner to family.  Sometimes the families are so destitute that Alberto buys them a bag of potatoes or mielie-meal (a corn-based staple) and a chicken.  They cannot believe that someone would visit without threatening them or requesting something from them.

Destitution is a huge problem here, and probably the thing that I struggle with the most.  It seems like an impossible challenge to address.  Immigrants pour in over the border daily looking for a better life here, only to be met with xenophobia.  People beg on every street corner.  Children come to our house daily asking for a slice of bread or cup of water.  Yet, the rich continue to get richer here and live lavish lifestyles.  It is a hard contrast to swallow, and one I hope I never get used to.  Please pray that we will always have our eyes on Jesus, and be a light shining to those who do not know Him.  And pray we will have the wisdom to know when or how to help, as the need is overwhelming.

Isaiah 42:5-7 tells us what we as the people of God are called to:
5 This is what God the Lord says—
the Creator of the heavens, who stretches them out,
who spreads out the earth with all that springs from it,
who gives breath to its people,
and life to those who walk on it:
6 “I, the Lord, have called you in righteousness;
I will take hold of your hand.
I will keep you and will make you
to be a covenant for the people
and a light for the Gentiles,
7 to open eyes that are blind,
to free captives from prison
and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness.

May we all walk in a manner worthy of our calling.

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Phoebe now attends a special needs school, which is going ok.  The staff is loving, although the school is incredibly under-resourced in terms of supplies and equipment.  Her facilitator Kirsty is wonderful, so thank you for praying for that connection.

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In case you missed the exciting news in our last update, we bought a house in Cape Town.  We move this week!  It has a lot of character, including a variety of fruit trees: passion fruit, olive, avocado, and lemon.  This is our fourth move in five years, so we are hoping for some stability going forward!

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Above is Margaret’s school picture from the American International School of Cape Town.  9th grade continues to be challenging academically.  Socially, there is a high turn-over rate among the students and staff since foreigners are generally issued three-year visas.  Margaret will lose another good friend in June.  But, Avy recently started at the school, and she is Christian!

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Ana is more than half-way through her School of Biblical Studies.  Click here to read her recent update.

She arrives on Saturday for her spring break, since tickets are much cheaper now than at Christmas.  We can’t wait to see her again.

She recently posted this on facebook:
These are some of the reasons I smile:
1. I am fully loved by Jesus!
2. He has given me the most incredible family who I get to see in 5 days!
3. I am surrounded by the most incredible men and women who I call family as we study the Bible
4. I live in Hawaii ?

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Pictured above is Isaac enjoying the snow with his friends at Messiah.  His engineering classes are challenging.  He is trying to add in a philosophy or business minor.  He is also working at Cick-Fil-A.  He is not coming home for spring break, which means we have not seen Isaac since August, and he has not slept under the same roof as us in a year.  This is the sad reality of living so far away.  I miss him.

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Praise God our drought is over, as rains were plentiful last winter.  Sadly, our next challenge has started: daily black-outs, aka “load shedding.”  The “load” (demand) is “shed” (decreased) by cutting power nation-wide anywhere from two to seven hours a day.  Unmaintained generators are the cause of decreased production ability.  Not only is this incredibly inconvenient, but also has a strangling effect on small businesses and traffic (since most traffic lights are down).  As most house stoves are electric, we are grateful for our gas camping stove.  And we’re grateful we didn’t have electricity outages at the same time we had water restrictions!

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Merry Christmas to us from our amazing Barnabas group!  It took almost three months to arrive, but better late than never. And how we loved all those thoughtful presents!

January 27, 2019

Gratitude sums up our thoughts these days.  Thank you to everyone who donated money towards a new car for Alberto.  We were amazed and encouraged by the positive response.  Thank you!  The new Honda Jazz is pictured below.  It is already getting a good work-out transporting Alberto’s team around.  Now they can start visiting some of the inmates’ families again.

We have a big surprise to share, and one we didn’t anticipate…we bought a house!  Huge news, I know!  We were not looking to buy a house.  We just saw this one and fell in love with it immediately.  We actually didn’t think we could buy it without selling our Quincy home, but people strongly advised us against selling, so we started praying for an alternative.  My parents said they could help with the down payment.  Then we applied for a mortgage here, which we got.  We are amazed at God’s guiding Hand in what is usually a long and complicated process.  It’s been a month since we put an offer on the house, and yesterday we signed the last papers.

Not only are we grateful to my parents and our faithful renters in our Quincy house, but we are grateful to you all, who have faithfully been partnering with us year after year.  We honestly didn’t know how things would go for us in South Africa when we came in 2014, but door after door has opened, and now this!  The house is a gift from God, and we dedicate it to His purposes, hoping that everyone who enters will be blessed.  Please come visit!

In the words of our YWAM leader Edwin Fillies, “If we say we love South Africa and are not engaged on some level with [South Africa’s] reality then our love is superficial and hypocritical.”  Amen!  Our goal remains to love the marginalised as we share the Hope of Christ, and the blessings of our new car and home have further equipped us to do so.

Thank you to all of you who contributed to our car fund!  We raised enough to buy a 2016 Honda Jazz.  (The other car we were interested in didn’t work out, but this car is amazing!)  We are so grateful for everyone’s generosity.  And yes, it does look very similar to his last car, but is a better brand.

Alberto gave his old car to Willem, his South African co-worker.  Willem was overjoyed.  Blessings certainly have ripple affects.

Here is our new house!  April 1 is our move-in date, as we had to give our present landlord due notice.

Prison ministry is going well, despite the sad death of the Spanish inmate Alberto befriended.  Alberto had shared the gospel with this man, so we hope to see him in heaven!

Meanwhile, the picture above shows some of the wardens who are key people in prison ministry.  They can make things run smoothly, or make things unnecessarily complicated.  However, they have the same needs as everyone else: the need to be heard, and the need for hope in Jesus.

Sunday morning church services are still going strong in Pollsmoor Prison, which Alberto continues to be involved in.

Soccer ministry is going well, with the team growing each week.  Since the goalie’s shocking death, there has been an increase in spiritual thirst among the players.  They have a Bible study before each session.  Alberto was able to distribute Bibles to players so they can follow-up on the studies at home.

We attended an outdoor candlelight carol service at the botanical gardens with our YWAM friends.  It was a lovely kick-off to the Christmas season, although Christmas itself was very hard for us without Ana and Isaac.  We did invite another family over for the celebration, but it just wasn’t the same.

Ana and Isaac spent Christmas together in Hawaii, which they thoroughly enjoyed.  It seemed like the best solution, given the horrific airfare prices to Cape Town at Christmas.

Ana recently started term 2 of her School of Biblical Studies.  Isaac is back at Messiah College finishing up a Philosophy class for J-term, a concentrated study of one class.

Margaret is back to school in 9th grade.

Phoebe won a school raffle for a free family SUP (Stand Up Paddle board) session.  We each got our own board and set of paddles to explore the harbour.

Phoebe is pictured above standing tall on the SUP board with her instructor.  She loved it!

Phoebe’s free hypotherapy classes have resumed, much to her joy.

It was a long day for Santa and Phoebe at the YWAM Christmas party.

Phoebe is still on an extended summer break, and only starts her new school on February 5.  She will be in the autism division of the public special needs school.  There will be seven other students in the class.  The school day runs from 8:30-12:00.  Her teacher seems very capable and caring.  We are praying that it is a good experience for Phoebe, and that she will learn many new skills (including how to deal with an uncomfortable school uniform).

Phoebe’s new aide will be Kirsty, who is a wonderful Christian lady who adores Phoebe and has lots of experience with special needs children.  Thank you for praying for our search.

 

August 24, 2017

We are back from our whirlwind tour of Boston, Virginia, and many places in between. Add a lay-over in Paris, a youth missions trip to Colombia, and Alberto’s trip to El Salvador, and you have some blessed, tired people.  It was thrilling to see (and stay with) friends and family again, hear Gordon’s last sermon, eat at Chipotle, visit my favorite thrift store, and enjoy the benefits of being in majority culture.  It was exhausting taking Phoebe to six specialists at Children’s Hospital, driving to Virginia and back, and sorting through the pro’s and con’s of selling vs. refinancing our house in Quincy.  It was a joy to talk about the work we do in South Africa, and to receive positive feed-back from friends, family and churches.  It was inspirational visiting college campuses for Isaac up and down the east coast, although financially very daunting.  All in all, it was a packed trip that kept us “on” the entire six weeks.  

The best part of the trip was the people.  Thank you to all of you for opening your hearts and homes to us.  We loved spending time with you.  It was surreal, after imagining our reunions for so long. Spending precious time with you made it tougher for me to return to South Africa.

Thank you to Park Street Church, the Spanish Baptist Church, and the Holy Nativity Church for the many opportunities you gave us to share, and for embracing us.  God bless you all!

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We are back from our whirlwind tour of Boston, Virginia, and many places in between. Add a lay-over in Paris, a youth missions trip to Colombia, and Alberto’s trip to El Salvador, and you have some blessed, tired people.  It was thrilling to see (and stay with) friends and family again, hear Gordon’s last sermon, eat at Chipotle, visit my favorite thrift store, and enjoy the benefits of being in majority culture.  It was exhausting taking Phoebe to six specialists at Children’s Hospital, driving to Virginia and back, and sorting through the pro’s and con’s of selling vs. refinancing our house in Quincy.  It was a joy to talk about the work we do in South Africa, and to receive positive feed-back from friends, family and churches.  It was inspirational visiting college campuses for Isaac up and down the east coast, although financially very daunting.  All in all, it was a packed trip that kept us “on” the entire six weeks.  

The best part of the trip was the people.  Thank you to all of you for opening your hearts and homes to us.  We loved spending time with you.  It was surreal, after imagining our reunions for so long. Spending precious time with you made it tougher for me to return to South Africa.

Thank you to Park Street Church, the Spanish Baptist Church, and the Holy Nativity Church for the many opportunities you gave us to share, and for embracing us.  God bless you all!

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Ana is finishing three-months of staffing the DTS (Discipleship Training School) in Worcester.  She is preparing to lead a three-month outreach to Madagascar. This is a huge step of faith for Ana (and all of us).  

A few of you may have received her very first newsletter with her very own list of people.  For the rest of you, if you would like to read more about her trip, pray for her, or give financially, please use this link:

gofundme.com/ana-paradas-outreach-to-madagascar

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Isaac loved being back in Boston with all his friends.  He also enjoyed working at Sprinkles and having cash to buy the camera he used to make the video mentioned below.

Isaac went on the Colombia youth missions trip with Park Street Church. (He is standing above the city of Medellin in the photo.)  At first I was opposed to the idea of his going, because he would miss school and would have to finance the trip. But praise God, it all worked out. Some very generous friends covered his expenses, and missing a week of school was ok.

The mission to Colombia was a blessing for the participants, and the kids in Colombia.  You can watch the video Isaac created here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfSeqS6xsyU

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Margaret had an amazing time back in the U.S. She was reunited with her old friends up and down the east coast, and was also able to attend Camp Deer Run. (She got off the wait-list just days before camp started!)

Phoebe had a difficult transition back to the U.S., due to the stress of losing her routine. At Children’s Hospital, we saw specialists in six different departments: Down syndrome, endocrinology (diabetes), gastroenterology (digestion), cardiology (heart), otolaryngology (hearing), and ophthalmology (eyes). We had positive responses from all, except a slight concern from GI regarding Phoebe’s small size.  As a result of that, she is now taking a high-potency enzyme to help her get more nutrients out of her food, which should in turn help her growth!

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Back to school for Phoebe, Margaret and Isaac.  Phoebe is in the middle of her preschool year.  Margaret and Isaac started a new school year (grades 8 and 12 respectively).  Hard to believe!

And yes, it is cold here.  We came back to winter, which was not easy, as we immediately got sick!

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Traveling is very unsettling for me.  The instant change of culture, climate, faces and food throws me into a state of chaos. What season is it?  What month are we in?  Where do I belong?  While in Boston, part of me slipped into my old life.  But, I had been gone for almost three years, and have changed significantly during that period.  I actually felt quite at home in Cape Town before leaving for Boston. Yet upon returning to Cape Town, I missed friends and upcoming activities in Boston (like Family Camp).

It is a blessing to have wonderful friends on each continent, but I know that neither is truly my home, or are both? While I long for a sense of security and a comfort zone, God alone is my security, especially when I feel like my life is in upheaval.  I am in this world, but not of it. 

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Dr. John (Knight) visited us in Cape Town briefly, as seen in the picture above with Ricardo from Hope Prison Ministry, whom Alberto works with in Pollsmoor Prison.

Financial Opportunity

If you would like to help support our work in South Africa through YWAM and Hope Prison Ministry, please make a donation to Park Street Church with our name in the memo. The online giving link is parkstreet.org/give.  

One of our goals for our time back in the U.S. was to encourage more people to join our support team.  This is a difficult topic to bring up in casual conversation, so please know we would appreciate your support, whether it be a one-time gift or a recurring gift.  We receive 95% of our support from friends and family.

Our mission is to bring the liberating Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ to prisoners and their families, so that they can live out their calling in full knowledge that they are beloved children of God who have been set free. In turn, they can be instruments of positive change in their community, for the glory of God.  We serve a redemptive God.

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Preschoolers enjoy new warm winter sweatshirts, thanks to Holy Nativity’s bake sale profits.

This sweet child got a new hand-made sweater, thanks to Holy Nativity knitters.

October 7, 2016

Greetings from our new home in Cape Town!  We are very happy to be together as a family in a great house, but the transition has not been easy.  We left a small, rural, tight-knit community in YWAM Worcester and arrived in the big city of Cape Town with no community.  Although we are slowly making headway in meeting people, the accumulated stress of moving and adapting once again took a toll on us initially.

With few exceptions, we did not know anyone when we arrived, so spent the first few weeks stumbling around. Where is the grocery store?  How do you get internet?  (Ok, we are still struggling with this one!)  Who do you call in an emergency?  How do you turn on and off the electric fence and security system?  Is it ok to sleep with windows open, even though there are no screens but bars on all the windows?  How do you respond to men, women or children begging on street corners?  Personally I felt like a deer in the headlights, always being on alert and trying to absorb my new environment as best I could.  The fact that we had no friends here was a bit disheartening.  I looked eagerly into people’s blank stares, and knew I was a complete outsider.

“Stand strong when life changes, stand strong for the up’s and down’s.  Stand strong for you know that God is in control.”  Sounds familiar?  Those are the lyrics of a song from a Kidsweek cd from years past.  (One of Phoebe’s favorites!)  So, we stood strong, trusting God in our new place.  And God showed Himself faithful. 

I became more confident in our calling here.  I began to relax.  I started smiling at the people I saw.  And one day someone smiled back at me!  Somehow, that physical sign of welcome was a turning point for me.  I knew that the worst of the transition was behind us.  I felt hope.  I knew it was just a matter of time before I made friends. I would adapt. We were no longer strangers in this new city.  We were residents.

Later as I reflected on that smile, I realized that one person is all it takes to change someone’s scenario.  One person to say we can rent his house.  One person to offer Isaac admission at a school.  One person to share Christ with.  And ultimately, one Savior who died on the cross for us.  The power of one.

To close, I quote another Kidsweek song, “You paid the price for me.  Now the least I can do is live my life for you.”

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Alberto took some of his boys from Worcester on their first hike to a beautiful local waterfall.  

Alberto also recently participated in another Restorative Justice conference at the nearby Pollsmoor Maximum Security Prison.  This is a very dangerous overcrowded under-serviced prison where Nelson Mandela was held. Out of such a place, 12 men gave their lives to the Lord, and a number of them made the very risky decision to leave their respective gangs.  The latter has potentially lethal consequences as the gangs are still active in the prisons. Praise God for the strength of our new brothers!

Although Cape Town is a very beautiful affluent city in parts, the poverty in other parts is oppressive.  The poor do not have many opportunities to earn an income, so many turn to crime.  It is easy to see why the jails are overflowing.   

I have started visiting a home where 14 foster kids live.  Interacting with the kids is challenging at this point, but I understand that trust does not come easily.

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Ana and Margaret returned on Sept 6. Ana loved being a nanny for a very special family, and Margaret enjoyed being with her friends again.  Margaret started homeschooling the day after she arrived.

Meanwhile, Isaac is being a diligent student at the American International School.  It’s mostly international, with only 18% American, and 55 different nations represented in their 400 students!

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Happy 13th birthday to Margaret and happy 17th birthday to Isaac.  We celebrated at Cape Town’s beautiful waterfront.  There were so many blessings to celebrate!

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Phoebe is showing off her new haircut! She recently expanded on her favorite 3-word sentence and made it a 5-word sentence: “I want more meat please!”  

We are having a challenging time finding affordable therapies for Phoebe here in Cape Town.  Not only are prices much more expensive than in Worcester, but therapy is not covered by our insurance. Please pray that we can find some good options for her.

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The surprise of the month is that Ana decided to return to YWAM Worcester to do a DTS (Discipleship Training School). DTS is an intensive 3-month discipleship course followed by a 2-month outreach. It is YWAM’s flagship course.  

Since Ana’s college doesn’t start until February, she had just the right amount of time to do the course.  She decided to do the course the night before it started! There are 7 girls from 7 different countries in her class, and 10 boys.  I am thrilled Ana took the initiative to do this course, and I am happy that she is not too far away!

Financial Request

Thank you to those of you who have contributed to our increased living expenses.  Our rent, Isaac’s tuition, and Phoebe’s therapies have increased our budget considerably.  We will be sending out a formal fundraising letter later this year.  

If you would like to help contribute now, please make a donation to Park Street Church with our name in the memo. The online giving link is parkstreet.org/give.  

This move has been a steep step of faith, so please join us in praying for the necessary finances to enable us to do what we believe God is calling us to do. We are very grateful to each of you who gives and prays for us. Thank you for your role.

Prayer Requests

1. God’s protection, blessing and guidance on what we do.

2. Protection for our new brothers in prison.

3. Wisdom to know how best to help the needy children we encounter daily.

4. Conviction for those in power who are only concerned about their own betterment. 

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Fynbos, pictured above, is the name of the indigenous semi-arid bush that thrives where we live on the Cape Peninsula.  It is protected under World Heritage laws, which means the invasive pine trees that have crept into the area (over the past 100 years) may be chopped down to make space for the reseeding fynbos. The battle between fynbos and pine is waging in court and on the streets at the moment, as residents love the local pine forest.

YWAM Worcester recently celebrated its 30 year anniversary.  In a huge home-coming event, people from all over the world returned to celebrate the spiritual heritage of this place.  What a blessing it was to be there!

May 31, 2016

We are in the midst of busy days at home and in ministry here in South Africa, as you will see from the pictures below.  In this section, I will share Alberto’s thoughts on his work with the kids in the community:

Working in the poor racially-segregated communities of South Africa is very difficult. Most of the young men I work with live with one parent or a relative.  Usually they are hungry, and often they are abused by someone who was supposed to protect them.  

The Lord has brought me here to encourage these boys, so they can find hope in Him. He is the only Way they will find refuge.  Jesus has paid a big price for our rescue and for our freedom.  He understands betrayal.  It is not easy for these boys to learn to trust again.  It is not easy for them to speak about love, as they are used to a culture of lying and hurting in order to survive.  For them, respect comes through being tough and hurting others.

Yet these boys are good at working with their hands.  They are good artists, dancers, and musicians.  When jobs come their way, in enables them to buy food.  It is not enough for clothes and shoes, though.  Work is therefore not a way of life for them.  Crime is.  I am trying to teach these guys about the consequences of following good verses evil.  

Prisons here in South Africa are full of Coloured and Black people.  Society, especially in the wake of such strong color divides and prejudice, is failing them as well.  Please help me pray for these guys to come to true freedom through the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  He paid the price for all to be saved and know freedom.

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When a donation (from one of our donors) came in for the preschool, the teacher decided to build a playground! Alberto helped with the building and participated in the inauguration ceremony!  Kids here have few safe places to be, let alone a place to play!

I donated some of our old children’s books to the preschool, since they had none.

Winter is approaching, which means we have very cold nights!  There is a big push to provide warm blankets and hats to kids in the community. (My mom knit this one!) 

Last month we dropped Ana at the airport.  She is currently a live-in nanny at our friends’ house!

Ana got her driver’s license last week! This was one of her goals while being in the U.S.

Alberto’s new car…finally!  Thank you to all of you who made this possible.  This car will make our lives much easier!

Sweet Phoebe at speech therapy. 

This will be our new family size for most of the upcoming year!  Releasing Isaac has been the single most difficult thing I have had to do.  Neither the best schools in Cape Town nor his precious family could tempt him to stay!  I am not sure when we will see him again, as he is traveling on a one-way plane ticket. At least Ana has a return ticket!  

Rebecca came to visit us last week! Rebecca was Phoebe’s volunteer during Park Street Church’s Christian Formation Hour, made possible through the Enable Boston ministry.

Kid Update

Ana is enjoying being a nanny and catching up with friends in the U.S. She recently completed her college applications for schools in Cape Town. She returns to South Africa Sept 6 and will start university here in Jan 2017.

Isaac finishes homeschooling next week. He leaves South Africa June 11, at which time he will stay with my parents in Weymouth and work for the summer. He starts Boston Trinity Academy in August.

Margaret is still homeschooling.  She is excited to leave South Africa late June, with her friend Jordyn, who will be here on a short-term missions trip. Margaret will attend camp at Deer Run, NH before returning to South Africa with Ana on Sept 5. 

Phoebe turns 9 next week.  Her latest sentence is “More food please.”  This is now her favorite sentence, replacing the former favorite “I want meat.”  We are now working on “I see meat.”  (Clearly food, and specifically meat, is a big motivator for Phoebe!) She is fortunate to have many dedicated therapists here.

Prayer Requests

  • Pray for the boys that Alberto is working with, that they will know there is Hope.
  • Continue to pray for rain for South Africa. 
  • Pray for our safety and protection.
  • Praise that Isaac’s id arrived.
  • Pray for Isaac’s departure from South Africa to Boston on June 11. 
  • Pray for me when Isaac leaves! 
  • Praise that Phoebe’s birth document arrived.  We now have all the necessary documents for the whole family!
  • Praise that Ana has finished her college applications for Cape Town schools.  Pray that she will get into the right school!

December 14, 2015

Merry Christmas to all of you!  It is still hard to celebrate Christmas in the summer, but I am getting used to it.  In true South African spirit, we are heading to the beach for a few days.  It will be our first family vacation since arriving last year, and we have a lot to celebrate!

Thank you to all of you for your support.  We are keenly aware of the fact that we are here because of God and because of your support.  We are so grateful!  We actually just mailed postcards to many of you, so please look out for them.  They say “Thank you from South Africa.”  (I’m telling you in case they never arrive!)

Our Barnabas (prayer) group is also helping us mail out 150 fundraising letters, as we have some financial needs.  We are raising money for Alberto to buy a ministry vehicle. We are also trying to increase our number of monthly donors, as we have lost some donors. (Please use this link www.parkstreet.org/giving if you are interested in donating.)  

We are famous!  No, not really.  But here is a link to a 5 minute video which may be shown in different African countries as part of a campaign to offer hope to the hopeless.  This particular video tells how Christ helped a young man overcome a gaming and porn addiction.  Alberto and Ana are actors in the video, which takes place in our house!

Here is the link to more YWAM Worcester videos, which tell other stories of redeemed struggles.  (There are also some short videos about classes YWAM offers.)

Photos entitled:

  • “Healing Jesus” Campaign came to Worcester!
  • Alberto and the ushers.
  • Possibly the biggest evangelistic campaign since Andrew Murray’s ministry in the 1800’s!
  • Some of the boys Alberto is working with. There is a strong gang and drug presence in the community, which tries to lure young boys into a life of crime.
  • Setting up tables with donated goods. The kids earn tokens that they can use to buy items.
  • New shoes!
  • The construction team.
  • Building a swing set for a preschool in the community.
  • Testing the swing!
  • Phoebe has a variety of therapies each week, but horse-back riding is her favorite (and actually the cheapest!)
  • Margaret played the role of the wicked fairy step-mother and cat in the play “A Mixed Up Fairy Tale.”   (Ana did the make-up for the cast.)